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Decluttering Your Home with The Organized Mama: Jessica Litman (Ep 46)

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How do you feel when your home is clean? You walk in and everything is in its place. There’s no secret stash anywhere, no piles that are loading up, the closets can actually close.

It feels amazing.

In today’s episode I am bringing back The Organized Mama, Jessica Litman to talk about how we can simplify the process of decluttering our homes. Because something that I firmly believe is that in order to stay organized, you can’t have too much stuff! There is a level where I don’t care how hard you try, you’re not going to be organized until you let some of this go because there’s just not enough space.

So jump in with us today as we talk all about getting rid of things, decluttering, and more.

Oh, and if you missed Part One on organizing from last week you can find it here!
Okay, let’s jump in!

This episode will help:

👉 you embrace letting go without the guilt
👉 you actually honor and use the sentimental items in your home
👉 you make decisions and clear the clutter fast!




What is Clutter

I read this quote once and it just absolutely nails it what clutter is. It’s from Barbara Hemphill, and she said: Clutter is nothing more than postponed decisions.

Wow. Isn’t that so true?

I mean, that’s what I do. I’ll look at something and think oh I’m gonna get to that later. I am gonna run that downstairs or upstairs or wherever it goes…….later. And all of a sudden I’ve got all of these postponed decisions that start to pile up and then make me feel kinda icky if I’m being honest.

Really, clutter is anything that doesn’t belong in a space. It’s all the stuff that is located somewhere it shouldn’t be. It’s the piles of things you stack on the stairs for your family to take and put away, it’s the paper clutter from kids school papers, permission slips, and junk mail, and sometimes it’s things around your house that you’re just holding on to. And sometimes that clutter is no longer meant to be with you and it’s time to let it go.

Let it Go

Oof, letting things go. We have a tough time with this don’t we? I mean, it’s fairly easy to throw out junk mail, dishes and appliances that are broken, or clothing that is stained or has holes in it. But other times it’s really hard to let things go!

There are lots of reasons why. We might feel like, but what if I need it again? But I spent money on this, I can’t just throw it out! This was a gift! Or one of the biggest reasons why we have a hard time letting things go is because of sentimental reasons. Which is why I just loved that Jessica says when it comes to the sentimental stuff we should ask ourselves:

Is this sentimental to me or is this sentimental to somebody else?

And if the answer is that it’s sentimental to someone else then you are just holding on to it out of guilt. Oof again, that’s a tough realization, but the reality is that type of energy in our homes is definitely not what we are going for! I’m not saying you need to get rid of all your sentimental items, but to find reasons for keeping it. Storing something in a box in your basement because it’s “special” isn’t really honoring the thing, person, or the memory.

Ask yourself if you aren’t displaying it or using it, what is the point of it?

If you’re keeping it, then do something with it. Turn it into something, actually display it. Your China from your wedding, or from your grandparents….USE IT! Turn your China into your everyday dishware, like my guest Jessica did!

Swedish Death Cleaning

If you need another nudge to get you aboard the let it go and declutter train, there is a really great book that got brought up in our interview called The Gentle Art of Swedish Death Cleaning. It’s a really great way to look at things when deciding what to keep and what do get rid of. It basically asks the question: when I die, who is going to have to go through and get rid of all my stuff?

Okay, so that sounds kind of morbid, but it’s something to really think about! Are you delaying making decisions (because remember, clutter is just unmade decisions) and putting it off to your family to deal with when you’re gone?

Are your kids really going to want your high school graduation gown? Probably not. When we hold on to everything, nothing becomes special. So let the things go.

Kids Memory Boxes

Okay, this is probably my favorite takeaway from the whole episode. Because I’m gonna be super honest, I remember being handed boxes and boxes and boxes of my childhood stuff.

I didn’t want any of it.

I glanced at it, but I was like, what am I supposed to do with this? Where am I going to put this finger painting from when I was five? I don’t need my report card from 7th grade…..etc….

So for my kids, I’m just keeping a few absolute favorite things that really have meaning and I’m adding stories to them. I often take a little piece of paper and tell the story of what it is. But I’m keeping it to ONE box.

I also loved the idea that Jessica had of letting THEM create a box of memories and things that THEY want to keep. They decide what goes in there, but the box lid has to close. So at the end of every school year, they go through and they decide what they wanna keep, what they don’t. It’s not our memory bin as parents, it’s the kids. And wow, I just love that idea.

Whew! I am feeling so inspired to declutter, to organize, to just open up more space. How about you?

I hope that you will carve out some time in the next 24 hours. 24 hours, and just take one space, one space and declutter, put it where it belongs, and if there isn’t a space where it belongs, maybe that means it’s time to let it go and let it move on.

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I’d love to hear what you thought of this episode. Let me know by connecting on Instagram! 

Get the book, Home Sweet Organized Home on Amazon

Connect with Jessica on Instagram: @organizedmamas and Facebook

Jessica’s Podcast: Organizing Tune-Ups

Other Episodes You’ll Love:

Organizing Your Home with The Organized Mama ( Ep 45)

Keeping a Clean Home When You Don’t Have Time (Ep 22)

Helping Our Kids Balance The Busy (Ep 21)

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